Becoming A Step-Mother

Step-mother is what a woman becomes when married to a man that already has a child.

Becoming a step-mother needs proper thinking as it is more than just acting like a mother, it is becoming a real mother to children that are not yours biologically.

Recently and also in the past, there has been rampant stories of women maltreating their husband child/children most of which leads to death. This act is bad and devilish.
Going into a marriage like that needs extra patient, thoughts and wisdom from above. You will definitely see reasons why you need to beat them or talk to them but all these are to be done in Godly manner showing care as a mother.

SOME STEPS TO CONSIDER AS A WOMAN
1. You must be sure that your proposed step-children have accepted you wholeheartedly. You must have created a good relationship with them while visiting their father during courtship.

2. You must have accepted your proposed husband's child/children as yours without any form of doubt.

3. You must be sure that it is what you want i.e It must be your true intention.

4. If you can't become a mother to children that are not yours, don't marry a man with kids.

5. Never subject yourself to hard lesson. As much as you think the man is yours, you should remember that his children are very important in the family


Every decision in life has their own consequences... Think deeply before you act.

Must Read: Advice from a Professional Doctor on Coronavirus

Corona virus is spreading gradually across the world, and this is causing a great tension for the people living in the world and many people are dead because of the deadly virus but here is an Advice from Ahmadi from China, a student at the Faculty of Medical Sciences at Zanjan University.

The Corona virus or COVD-19 will reach any country sooner or later, and there is no doubt that many countries do not have any sophisticated diagnostic kits or equipment.
 Please use as much natural vitamin C as possible to strengthen your immune system.  Currently, the virus does not contain a vaccine or specific treatment Unfortunately, due to the genetic mutation that made it very dangerous.

This disease appears to be caused by the fusion of the gene between a snake and a bat, and has acquired the ability to infect mammals, including humans.
 It is important to have greater knowledge of the disease: Professor Chen Horin, CEO of Beijing Military Hospital, said: "Sliced ​​lemon in a glass of warm water can save your life".
 So whatever you are doing, take a look at this message and pass it on to other people!
 Hot lemon can kill cancer cells!  Cut the lemon into three parts and put it in a glass, then pour hot water and transform it into (alkaline water), drink it every day, it will definitely benefit everyone.  Treatment with this extract destroys only malignant cells and does not affect healthy cells.
 Second, the carboxylic acid in lemon juice can regulate high blood pressure, protect narrow arteries, regulate blood circulation and reduce blood clotting.
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 After reading the message, transfer it to the person you love and take care of your personal health.
 Advice: Professor Chen Horin notes that whoever receives this message is at least guaranteed to save someone's life ...

I did my job and I hope you can help me develop it too.
 God bless us.

How to Trace a Missing or Stolen Phone

HOW TO TRACE A MISSING OR STOLEN PHONE

If you lose your mobile phone, you can trace it without going to the police.

Most of us always fear that our phones may be stolen at any time.

Each phone carries a unique
IMEI no. i.e. International Mobile Equipment Identity No which can be used to track it anywhere in the world.

This is how it works:

1. Dial *#06# from your mobile.

2. Your mobile phone shows a unique 15 digit.

3. Note down this number at a secure place except in your mobile phone itself as this is the number which will help trace your phone in case of theft.

4. Once stolen, just E-mail this 15 digit IMEI No. to cop@vsnl.net with details as stated below:

Your name:____________________
Address:______________________
Phone model:_________________
Make:_________________________
Last used No.:_________________
E-mail for communication:_____
Missed date:___________________
IMEI No :_______________________

5.Your Mobile will be traced within next 24 hours via a complex system of GPRS and internet, You will find where your hand set is being operated and the new user's No . will be sent to your email.
6. After this, you can inform the Police with the details you now have.

PLEASE SHARE THIS VERY IMPORTANT MESSAGE.

8 Good things to know about Hot Weather

It is well observed and  noticed recently that the heat of the day and the night was unbearably high.  According to experts, this is due to the heat waves resulting from the emission of greenhouse gases.
The Meteorological Agency warns us to prepare for warmer days and nights.  This preparation will require smart coping strategies and participation in climate resilient practices to deal with the damage.
The common effects of heat waves on humans are dehydration that can lead to unconsciousness or death, chicken pox, heat rash, and psychological stress.
 In order to cope with the current climatic conditions, the experts advised:

 1. Drink more water to stay hydrated.
 2. Keep a bottle of water with u to remind u to take water.
 3. Avoid alcoholic and caffeinated beverages during this time.
 4. Reduce the consumption of proteins rich foods (eg. red meats) as they increase metabolic heat.
 5. Feed on fresh fruits and vegetables that are better options.
 6. Monitor your blood pressure to make sure you are in the normal range.
 7. Stay indoors (in our house or office) between 12 noon and 3pm each day as much as possible.
 8. Take baths of cold (Room Temperature) water before going to bed at night.

Let us strive to conform to it because our life depends on it.
Let's be nice to share it with our loved ones.

HOW TO DETECT A FRAUDLENT ACTIVITIES.

Detect a fraudster.

It is not a new thing in our society of nowadays that fraudulent activities is everywhere. Even though the government keeps trying their possible best to curb the said activities, fraudsters still develops different strategies which makes it difficult for only government to deal with....

Fraud aka 419 has caused alot of damages to people and the society at large. 

This article will expose some common tricks used by fraudsters. 

One is called Sms alert trick: This happened when you received a message (SMS) that your account ATM has been blocked and you will need to provide some information to open it back , don't bother to give them any form of retort either by SMS or calling. 

Another tricked used by them is called Whatsapp Hacking: This type is very rampant, a WhatsApp account will be hacked to perpetrate their evil works. They will the hacked profile to dupe relatives and friends of the user. 

To prevent this you need to put a two way verification password on your WhatsApp, this will prevent threat from hackers except if you disclose your verification number to a third party.
How to do this: open your whatsApp, go to settings, click on account then click on two-step verification and input the numbers you won't forget. That's all... Now you are free from whatsApp hackers. 

Lastly is Calling Scam, this is very common before but it's still very much in town. They will give you a calling pretending to be a relative or a friend in US and any overseas country, telling you how to intend to bless you and how much they have missed you. Immediately they noticed that you have fall for their pretence, they will move to the next plan which is to create a way to make you pay. 
To deal with this, you must not be too forward to accept that you know or have somebody abroad. Be calm and don't flow with them too much, they are always under pressure too, even though they might sound relaxed to fool you. Cut the call and tell him or her that you know he/she is a fraudster and never to call you again

These are few but most used means of getting people duped of their valuables. Keep eyes on ground, always stay careful and ensure you inform your family and friend too.

Watch out for our next post.... Don't forget to drop a feedback.

MUST READ: Locate your NYSC camp easily.

HOW TO LOCATE ALL THE NYSC ORIENTATION CAMPS FOR 2019 BATCH A ORIENTATION EXERCISE

1. ABIA: On your way to Umuahia, come down at Bus stop gate in Umuahia, take a cab going to Ohafia via Igbere. Tell the driver you are going to Igbere before Abriba. Once you stop at Igbere which is just about 300-400 naira from Umuahia. Cross to the other side of the road and walk straight to camp. Please, on no account should you tell the driver that you're going to Bende, because Bende Town is a bit far from Igbere where your camp is located.

2. ANAMBRA : Coming from Onitsha, go to upper iweka and enter a bus going to Awka, as soon as you'd enter the bus, don't forget to remind the driver or conductor that you'll be stopping at the NYSC orientation camp in Umunya. When you'd get to Umunya, look for a bike man that'll take you into the camp. The distance from Onitsha to Umunya is from 20 to 40 minutes and the total price might range from 300 to 500. Coming from Awka, go to unizik junction and enter a bus going to Onitsha, as soon as you'd enter the bus, don't forget to remind the driver or conductor that you'll be stopping at the NYSC orientation camp in Umunya. When you'd get to Umunya, look for a bike man that'll take you into the camp. The distance from Awka to Umunya is from 20 to 30 minutes and the total price might range from 300 to 400.

3. KANO: On your way to Kano state, tell the driver to drop you at Unguwa uku. When he stops, you'll see buses waiting to drop people at Karaye camp at the rate of 500 to 700 naira, but if the driver didn't stop you at Unguwa uku, then stop at the final bus stop, Sabon-gari park at new road and board a Keke to Bata for 50 to 70 naira, from there, find a bus to Kabuga park, when you'd get to Kabuga park, board a bus to Karaye camp.

4. JIGAWA : From Kano, take a bus going to Dutse, tell the driver that you'll stop at the NYSC orientation camp in Fanisau, the journey will last for about 1 hour 30 minutes. The camp is located opposite an Army barrack.

5. BAUCHI: From the last bus stop in Bauchi, take a taxi to Muda Lawal park, then take another bus going to Wailo from the park. The NYSC orientation camp is located in Wailo.

6. RIVERS : When you'd get to Port harcourt, stop at Eleme junction, and ask for directions where Nonwa or Gokana buses are loading, and board a bus to the orientation camp. Make sure you'd tell the driver that you're going to the camp, the NYSC orientation camp is along the road. The journey is about 1 hour.

7. OYO: When you'd get to Ibadan, stop at Iwo road. From Iwo road, take a taxi of 150 to 200 naira going to Ojoo and tell them to drop you at Iseyin park. From Iseyin park, take a bus going to the orientation camp for up to 800 to 1,000 naira and be prepared for more that 2 hours journey.

8. DELTA : For those coming to Delta from Lagos and the whole of South West or Benin, enter Asaba bus or Onitsha bus and tell the driver to drop you at Issele-Uku junction. When you'd get to the junction, cross the express and take a bike straight to the orientation camp, which will range from 70 - 100 naira. For those coming from Enugu and the whole of South east, enter Onitsha bus and stop at upper Iweka, from upper Iweka, enter Asaba bus from 150 to 200 naira and drop at Koko junction which is the last bus stop and from there you'll see Issele-uku bus. Enter the bus and drop at Issele-Uku junction. When you'd get to the junction, cross the express and take a bike straight to the orientation camp, which will range from 70 - 100 naira. The journey to Issele-uku from Asaba is about 25 to 35 minutes.

9. ADAMAWA : From Yola, take a taxi to Vinikilang. From Vinikilang, you'll get a Keke straight to the camp. You can also take a drop that will carry only you or with your friends straight to the camp from whichever park you are arriving from. The price for a drop will range from 700 to 1,000 naira.

10. KATSINA : From Kano, board a bus going to Katsina, from the park in Katsina, you'll get a bike straight to the camp, located at Mani road.

11. NASARAWA : From Abuja, board a bus and stop at Mararaba, and take about 200 naira bus to Keffi and tell the driver to stop you at the NYSC orientation camp.

12. CROSS RIVER: From Lagos and South west states, stop at Calabar and take a straight bus to Obubra and tell them to stop you at Obubra junction, and enter a bike of 150 to 200 straight to the NYSC orientation camp. From Abuja, enter a Calabar bus and tell the driver that you'll be coming down at Obubra junction, at Obubra junction, enter a bike of 150 to 200 straight to the NYSC orientation camp. From Onitsha, stop at upper Iweka and enter IKOM motor, tell the driver that you'll be coming down at Obubra junction, at Obubra junction, enter a bike of 150 to 200 straight to the NYSC orientation camp.

13. SOKOTO : From the park in Sokoto city, get a bike man and tell him to take you to Wamakko. It will cost you from 150 to 250 naira, the camp is located at the left side of the road.

14. KADUNA: From the Kaduna city, enter a bus going to Chikun local government, tell the driver that you're going to the NYSC orientation camp. The camp is located at the Kaduna/Abuja expressway and costs 150 to 200 naira from the city.

15. KOGI: From anywhere in Kogi state, board a bus going to Kabba, stop at the last bus stop and board a bike to the NYSC orientation camp.

16. OSUN: From Osogbo, enter a bus going to Ede, as soon as they stop you, look for a bike that'll take you straight to the NYSC orientation camp for the rate of 100 to 150 naira. From Lagos, Ibadan, Kogi, Abeokuta or Abuja, look for a bus going to Osun state, immediately you get to Ife or Ilesha, tell the driver that you'll stop at Gbogan, from Gbogan, you will take a direct bus to the camp which is very close.

17. ABUJA/FCT: Stop at Jabi park, take a taxi or Keke to Wuse market and board a bus going to Kubwa village. The last bus stop is at Kubwa market, from the Kubwa market, the NYSC orientation camp is just a walking distance or you could just board a bike to the camp.

18. LAGOS : From Ikeja, take a bus to Iyana Ipaja, when you'd get to Iyana Ipaja, take a bus to Agege or Iyapaja and tell the driver to stop you at the NYSC orientation camp. From Ojota, take a bus to Oshodi, from Oshodi, take a bus to Iyana Ipaja and stop at their last bus stop which is under bridge, take the road on the right where you were stopped and walk down straight or ask people around the bus stop where the nysc camp is located and they will direct you appropriately. From Oyingbo, take a bus going to costain, when you'd get to costain, take a bus to Ojuelegba, from Ojuelegba, take a bus going to Oshodi, from Oshodi, take a bus to Iyana Ipaja and stop at their last bus stop which is under bridge, take the road on the right where you were stopped and walk down straight or ask people around the bus stop where the NYSC orientation camp is located and they will direct you appropriately.

19. OGUN: From Lagos, take a direct bus to Sagamu, when the bus stops, enter a bike straight to the orientation camp. From Abeokuta, take a bus to Sagamu, when the bus stops, enter a bike straight to the orientation camp. From Abeokuta to Sagamu is close to an hour.

20. IMO: Coming from Owerri, take a bus from Ama JK to Nkwerre. Make sure that you'd tell the driver that you're going to the NYSC camp in Eziama Obaire Nkwerre, stop at Nkume junction and take a bike to the camp. The distance from Owerri to the camp is like 40 minutes to 1 hour and the bus charge will be ranging from 300 to 500.

21. ENUGU: Coming from any part of Nigeria please proceed to Enugu City. When you get to Enugu City, locate Holy Ghost Park, ask for vehicles going to Awgu and board one of them straight to the camp. Coming from South, for eg. Port Harcourt-Calabar Axis. You don’t have to get to Enugu City, just board a bus heading to Enugu, inform the driver that you will be stopping at Awgu NYSC Camp. Remind him again, once you have passed Okigwe. Coming by air, board an airplane to the Enugu Airport. From the terminal, hire a cab straight to the camp or you can get to Holy Ghost Park and board a vehicle straight to the NYSC Camp. A second option by air, is the Owerri Airport, from Owerri, proceed by road to Okigwe, from Okigwe you will easily get a cab to the Awgu NYSC camp.

22. BORNO : Coming from Kano, tell the drivers that you're going to Gumel in Jigawa state, they'll direct you to a place that you'll get a taxi. The taxi will take you to a place that you'll get a straight bus to the College of Education, Gumel, where the temporary orientation camp is located.

23. YOBE: From Kano, get a direct bus going to Yobe. The camp is located at Potiskum. From Lagos, take a direct bus to Potiskum. From Onitsha, take a direct bus to Potiskum.

24. GOMBE : From Gombe park, enter a straight bus to the camp. The orientation camp is located at Science Technical college, Amanda, km 21, Gombe-Bauchi Highway-near International Airport Gombe.

25. AKWA IBOM: From AKTC park in Uyo, you might see a direct bus to camp, but if you didn't see, there's another way to get to camp without problems. Take a Keke to a place called Plaza, walk down to Oron road and ask where they board Nsit Atai buses.

26. KWARA: From Ilorin, take a bike to Maraba, that's where you'll get bus going to Yikpata camp. The buses will stop you at the camp entrance.

27. BAYELSA: Get a bus going to Yenagoa and tell the driver to stop you at Mbiama (just before they enter Bayelsa), at Mbiama you will see cabs going to Kaiama, join one and tell them you will stop at Kaiama park. From Kaiama park, take a direct bike to camp.

28. EDO : From Benin, take a bus to Okada. From Okada, you'll see a cab or bike that'll take you straight to the orientation camp.

29. TARABA: The NYSC orientation camp in Taraba is located at Sibre Airport Road, Jalingo. On your way to Jalingo, you'll be dropped in the gate of the NYSC camp, because it's located at the express.

30. ZAMFARA: From Kaduna, stop at Kawo park, get a bike or taxi to NDA junction where Zamfara park is located and get a bus to Zamfara, the camp is along the road at Tsafe LGA.

31. BENUE: From Makurdi last bus stop, cross to the other side and directly in front of Winners Chapel church, there are cars going to Gboko, from Gboko, you'll drop at the NYSC camp just after police college by the road side.

32. PLATEAU: From Jos, take a straight bus to Mangu where the orientation camp is located for a rate of 500 naira. The journey will take 45 minutes to 1 hour.

33. EBONYI: From Abakaliki, enter a bus to Afikpo Macgregor camp. Stop at the junction and take a straight bike to the camp.

34. KEBBI: From Mando park in Kaduna, get a vehicle going to Yauri/Kontagora, drop at Yauri. From Yauri, get a vehicle going to Koko. After dropping at Koko, get a straight cab to the orientation camp located at Dakingari. From Ibadan, get a vehicle going to Kontagora, Niger state, drop at Kontagora and get a vehicle going to Koko. After dropping at Koko junction, get a straight cab to the orientation camp located at Dakingari.

35. NIGER: From Minna, take a bike to Mobil filling station and take a bus straight to Paiko where the orientation camp is located.

36. EKITI: From Ado-Ekiti, get a straight bus to the NYSC orientation camp located at Ise-Emure Ekiti. The price for the bus will be around 300 naira.

37. ONDO: From Akure, take a taxi to Benin garage, you'll see a vehicle going to Ikare.  From the last bus stop, take a bike straight to the orientation camp.

GoodLuck and safe journey... Help a friend to know

CARE FOR A LAPTOP COMPUTER

laptop is a personal computer that allows individuals to browse the internet, design, watch movies, store pictures, store documents and keep and retrieve information.
Laptop is a fragile gadget that needs to be handle with care always. This artilcle will help you to care for your laptop for lasting durability use. Laptop can be so friendly interface as the environment is easy to operate and access with different versions of windows such as win 7, win 8, win 10 and so on.

Many latest Laptops are so fragile that need 100% care.

Tips on How to Prevent your Laptop from Damage

- Always clean your laptop from Dust.

- Never place your laptop on on flat ground when not in use.

- Never place your laptop around water, it is a bad thing to keep very close to water, it can pour on it and damage it easily.

- Always have a very strong and updated Antivirus on the computer.

- Never place below bed to avoid stepping on it.

- Do not place flash drive or any sharp object on the keyboard, it can easily damage it.

-Do not allow your laptop to fall Down.

- Keep away from Fire

- Always shutdown your laptop computer before closing it. It improves System Performance.

- If it develope any fault conatct your service engineer always.

I believe with all these you will enjoy the computer....

Premier League Chaos: “A laughing Stock”

After a series of incidents involving the Video Assistant in the first half of Sunday's game pundits and ex-players expressed their frustrations Stan Collymore has lead the way among former players and commentators criticising VAR after a series of controversial incidents in the Premier League match between Man city and Tottenham.

The former Liverpool forward labelled the VAR protocol “p*ss poor”, and “a f*cking omnishambles” on Twitter at half-time on Sunday.

The Video Assistant intervened three times in the first half at Tottenham Hotspur Stadium, once to review a potential red card for a challenge by Raheem Sterling and twice for possible penalties for City.

Sterling, who was booked by referee Mike Dean, escaped further punishment for a hard challenge that left Alli limping for several minutes.

Serge Aurier was then retroactively adjudged to have fouled Sergio Aguero, almost two minutes after the initial incident, which Dean had waved away, leading to a penalty for City.

Ilkay Gundogan saw a poor spot kick saved by Hugo Lloris in the Spurs goal with Sterling going over the ‘keepers arm from the rebound and VAR again checking for a penalty.

A confrontation followed, involving Sterling, who escaped further censure, despite bookings for Toby Alderweireld and Oleksandr Zinchenko for their roles in the incident.

All these factors combined to drive Collymore and others to vent their frustrations on social media.

Another wonderful news for Corp members...

Corp members to earn as much as 118,800 in arrears

Following the announcement of the newly approved wage of 33,000 naira for corp members by the Director General of the National youth service Corp - Brigadier General Shuaibu Ibrahim, corp members are set for a wind fall in terms of arrears.
Corp members in 2019 Batch A will earn as much as 118,800 in areas covering the period between April and December of 2019.

Also their colleagues in 2019 Batch B stream 1 with earn an estimated amount of 105,200 within the period of June and December while those in Batch B stream 2 will look forward to receiving the sum of 66,000.

Also corp members in 2018 Batch B streams 1 and 2, and Batch C streams 1 and 2 are expected to earn 26,400, 39,600 and 79,200, 92,400 respectively.

In conclusion the DG says that corps member should expect nothing less than #32,800 by TUESDAY, 4TH FEBRUARY 2020 as January allowance, if any corps member receive anything less than that, officially email the NYSC DIRECTOR GENERAL where they will reply your email with NYSC official account number where you'll resend the allowance for proper accountability.

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UNAVOIDABLE DEBT

DEATH

Proud you must be
Bringer of so much pain
In your twisted face, disaster breeds
Infirmities are released
O ye, you unwanted guest
Preying at the hearts of the innocent
Endless tears Mark your footprints
Wrinkled and broken are the hearts you ensnare
Definitely you'd visit but not at the beginning of time
Cold are the hands that behold you
Ash are the lips you smother with kisses
O you enemy of mankind
Lover of the soil
Of the rots and decay of the deceased
Death be not proud
Leave no legacy till we get to meet no more

©vida_ogbonna

Written By: Miss Ogbonna

AN ALPHA FEMALE...

She is a woman who is talented highly motivated with self confidence.  She is a leader, she is not afraid to put anyone in their place especially  when irritated by dirty talks. This woman is independent, she fights to achieve her dreams,  and everyone admires that quality.  She makes way for herself and loved one, she loves family and children. She knows how to get what she want.

She is magnetic, alluring, and irresistible. She poise like a trophy  with her head straight while walking in a room.  She doesn't care about things said behind her back, because its all rumors.
People want to know what is going on with her life, cause she is amazing. She is spiritual  and do not reveal too much. She is not shy to show emotions when hurt,  but rather show emotional intelligence in handling emotional pain, in a way it doesn't show weakness.

She is a strong woman that have been through painful experiences in life!  Learnt lessons and now ready  to answer the call of destiny.  For we are called here for a purpose.
That woman is me!
You can too...

I am Ifeoma, am an alpha lady... 

JEALOUSY OR MADNESS?

Jealously is normal in everyone, we all have a level of jealousy in ourselves but we tend to control this before it get out of hands. We sometimes love people and materials without a wish of losing them to anyone but when killing the people we claim to love, it is termed madness and not love.

There are different happenings today that warrant us to think twice while claiming to love or jealous. 
   
One of these happenings to learn from is a story about a woman named Maryam Sanda was sentenced to death by hanging for the murder of her husband, Bilyaminu Bello.

Bello had a woman named Amina Shagari in his life before he later got married to Sanda. Bello and Amina were so good together and everything was going on well, until Maryam Sanda came into the picture as the second wife. The first wife had to leave her husband place beacuse of the high level of Maryam jealousy.

An ugly incident happened one day because the wife went through her husband phone and saw a nude and some romantic chats with his desire to get a new wife.
She got so upset and threatened to quit the marriage. She demanded for divorce and threatened to kill the husband or cut off the genitals if he refused to grant her request. The husband's friend was with them for hours, trying to make peace but Sanda was just too angry to listen. 

She broke a groundnut bottle in an attempt to stab her husband but the broken bottle was collected from her. She went on to break the perfume bottle, but the husband collected it. Knives were said to have been collected from her severally during this period. 
The husband's friend got injured in the process. The only child in the house was crying but no attention was given to her by her angry mum. 

The husband's friend eventually got tired and left with the intention to go and call their other friend but unfortunately came back to meet the death of the his friend Bello. He was said to have bite marks, stab wounds in the chest, close to the heart and in the genitals.

Maryam Sanda called on her mother and brother and the maid to tamper with the evidences. They were all charged but it was later dropped. 

Maryam was pregnant with Bilyamin child when this incident happened. She gave birth to the child in the prison. The marriage was two years old as at when the incident happened, they had two children together.
At a point, Maryam was released on bail cos of health issues but  unconfirmed reports have it that she went home and threw a birthday party for the child. It was the talk of the town.

"It has been said that thou shall not kill. Whoever kills in cold blood shall die in cold blood," the judge said.

"Maryam Sanda should reap what she has sown," he said, adding, "it is blood for blood".

Without doubt, the woman deserved what she got but think about the babies she left behind, who will take care of them? Is death really the reward of what her husband did? 

Let's read this other story too.... Last year, a 20 years old student of Ekiti State University, Ado-Ekiti allegedly stabbed her lover, to death.

The lady who was a 300 level student of the department of Biology education stabbed her lover to death for refusing to give her #2,500 to make her hair.

According to the report of this story, the lady had demanded for #2,500 from her lover who happen to be a student of EKSU then, to make her hair but argument ensued after the lover refused to give her the money.

During the altercations, Odeyemi stabbed her lover in the chest and his cry for help attracted the neighbors, but unfortunately he did not survive the injury.

The lady in question was immediately arrested and we can all guess what it will lead to...

Sanda in her own story got uncontrollable for hours while she was angry which is very bad. Meanwhile, the fact that she got angry wasn't bad but the fact that she kept expressing the anger continually for hours with different weapons can be termed deadly. She never had the time to consider her kids as well as where her such act will take her to and for the fact that she stabbed her husband severally and inflicting different wounds on him show that it is no more jealous but madness.

Meanwhile, we can say Odeyemi had little time to think about what her action will lead to but that doesn't justify her own madness too. In relationship, supporting and caring for your partner is good but this shouldn't be one sided. Seeing guys as a fund givers in relationship is wrong and it is a well known fact that many ladies survives quite well without depending on a man.   

With these two stories above, we can see that there is no good in being over jealous and giving room for anger. This two things can be managed properly if given considerable time, take time to put your anger to check, listen to pleads and think more about the end point of your action before taking them. 

God help us...

NYSC ALLOWANCE INCREASED

It is an Happy moment for the Corps member to heard the breaking news about the increment in their allowance, as they rejoice. 

The Director-General, Brigadier General Shuaibu Ibrahim, has said that corps members' monthly allowance has been increased to N33,000.

He said the Federal Government approved N33,000 in line with the new national minimum wage.

Previously, the corps members were paid N19,800 as monthly allowance.

According to a statement made available by NYSC on its Facebook page, the DG disclosed this while speaking to corps members at the NYSC Bauchi State Secretariat during his working visit to the State.

Ibrahim explained that "contrary to the various amounts being circulated on the social media, the sum of N33,000 had been approved as the new rate."

He also said provision had been made for the new allowance in the year 2020 Budget, adding that payment would commence as soon as funds are released by the appropriate authorities.

Speaking further, he advised the corps members to always be security conscious.

He also cautioned them against rumour-mongering and negative usage of Social Media.

He admonished them to avoid unauthorised journeys and, when authorised to travel, not to do so at night because of the inherent danger.

Very Deadly Beware

Coronavirus are a large group of viruses that are common among animals in rare cases they are what scientists call zoonotic, meaning they can be transmitted from animals to humans.

The viruses can make people sick, usually with a mild to moderate upper respiratory tract illness, similar to a common cold.

HOW IT SPREADS
Human coronaviruses most commonly spread from an infected person to orhers through.
The air by coughing and sneezing
Close personal contact such as touching or shaking hands.
Touching an object or surface with the virus on it, then touching your mouth l, nose, or eyes before washing your hands.
Rarely, fecal contamination

SYMPTOMS
Runnig nose
Headache
Cough
Sore throat
Fever
Feeling of being unwell

For those with a weakened immune system the elderly and the very young, there’s a chance the virus could cause a lower and much more serious respiratory tract illness.

PREVENTION
There ae currently no vaccines available to protect you aganist human coronavirus infection.
Transmission is reduced through;

Washing your hands often with soap and water
Avoiding touching eyes, nose, or mouth with unwashed hands.
Avoiding close contact with people who are sick

If you are mildly sick, keep yourself hydrated, stay at home and rest.

YOU CAN DO IT JUST LIKE HIM

Achievement of man depends on God's grace as we all know but the grace shines brighter on you through your commitment and hardwork.

Omotoso Olutayo Olusogo won a scholarship sponsored by the Petroleum Technology Development Fund (PTDF), Nigeria to study at the Newcastle University, United Kingdom. There, he beat every other first class student from around the world to emerge the best with distinction.

According to Omotoso Olutayo who hails from Araromi Ekiti in Ijero local government "It was not my first time anyway, as I have won several academic awards. These include the Rector’s Award for the Overall Best Student in Electrical and Electronic Engineering Department, the Federal Polytechnic Ado-Ekiti (2004), HOD’s Award for the Overall Best Student in Power System and Machine at the Olabisi Onabanjo University, Ogun State (2017), etc. Yet, my award at the Newcastle University is special. It gives me one of the most blissful moments of my life being celebrated in one of the world’s topmost universities; though a lot of sacrifice, commitment and self-denial of fun were involved. I feel good that the feat has propelled me to the next stage of life having won another full scholarship for Doctor of Philosophy/Doctor of Engineering (PhD/EngD) programme at one of the top ranking universities in the world".

My area of specialisation is Electrical Power, which includes Power System Stability and Control; Power Electronics for power system and mobility applications using wide band gap technology. My class capacity was 50. Graduating as a top student in MSc Electrical Power came as a surprise to me for the fact over 80 per cent of the students were best candidates from their respective countries. Again, most of them had their first degree in the developed world with state-of-the-art teaching facilities, conducive teaching and learning environment and, most importantly, in high-ranking universities. I want to believe that the grace of God stood me out. Considering human efforts, I would say consistent study, persistence in solving problems were tools that propelled me to the top.

Students who want to be on top must be hard working, observe consistent study, and be relentless in problem solving. In fact, such students’ education/academic perspective must be unique and different. For me, I see education like taking a bath to look healthy rather than look good. That is, I view education/academics as a way of acquiring knowledge to impact the world positively rather than money making.

Omotoso has been able to prove something to through his commitment and hardwork. No matter how long, a day will come when your hardwork and commitment will smile on you.

HAPPINESS: A Key To Long Life

It is very important to know that the key to long life is HAPPINESS. Smiling makes you look simple and accommodating.

Happiness is a free gift of nature that makes all man kind. According to researchers, it has become a known fact that sickness penetrates more into a sad body than a happy body. Sickness like High blood pressure, Stroke and so on gain more power as a result of sadness.

Having it is so powerful that it affects almost everything in your life. Your happiness impacts your sleep, your relationships, your health and your work. Happiness is the highest form of wellness. Many people equate happiness with success..

Note: Happiness may bring success, but success alone will not bring happiness.

Why you need to be Happy

1. Long life is assured
2. When you stay happy, your health will improve
3. You will be free from worries
4. People tend to associate more with happy people
5. Your world will be lively

Staying happy has so many benefits. You can choose to be happy because it is a choice and can be created. Depending on people for happiness often brings unexpected sadness, so it is always advise to create one's happiness by oneself.

How can I create my own happiness?

1. AVOID GETTING ANGRY EASILY
To be realistic, we will always come across different things to get us angry but as happiness is a choice so does anger. You can decide the way you respond to everything that can get you angry. This does not mean that you should allow people to look down on you but you can stay on your feet without getting angry. When anger comes, talk to yourself 'am better than this', you can work away at first and get back after dealing with the anger in your mind.

2. BECOME A JOY GIVER
Happiness is not about how much you have. It is more than riches, you can't make people sad and expect to be happy. When people around you are happy, you will definitely be happy too.

3. DO WHAT YOU LOVE
I often tell people that if you face difficulties while doing what you love, you will be willing to face the challenges until you overcome them all but you can easily be defeated if you have less passion for what you do. What you do can always determine your happiness.

4. SPEND YOUR TIME AND MONEY ON WHAT GIVES YOU JOY
People often likes dictating their fellow men happiness but it is in your power to say no and do only the things that gives you joy.

5. SMILE
When you crack a smile, your system feels calm. Smiling releases endorphins, which combat stress hormones. Smile when you hear jokes, don't be too serious always.

The above mentioned ways are not all but few important ways to make yourself happy.

Be Happy... Stay Healthy

Can You Take It?: Say Your Own!....Be part of this hot topic.

Men and women are created equal but men are said to be the head, especially in a family setting.

Women are expected to honour their man and be submissive to him. In our environment here as an African, a woman that want to stay long in her husband's house and enjoy her family need to be very humble and patient.

Meanwhile, some men want more respect and can force their way to get it. It is not a new thing that some ladies are so disrespectful but is it right to correct wrong with wrong?

I know of a man, while we were talking about ladies in general, he happily shared the story of how he always beat his wife, he said “the only way to correct a woman as well as gain her total respect is by beating her real good”. Meanwhile, I have also come across a lady (single) that said she likes guys that correct through beating, she said guys like that can't be boring.

It is obvious that some ladies like to be corrected by beating and also that some men see beating as a way to gain total respect from their women.

Is beating woman a good way to really get their total submission?
What can you say about guys that beat their woman and also women that loves been beating...

This is a serious issue what is your view about this ???!!!!

Say your own... Drop your own opinion about this.

Creativity: Federal Polytechnic Ado-Ekiti Students has done it again!

It Is not a new thing that Federal Polytechnic Ado-Ekiti, Ekiti State students are one of the best in the Nation in term of Technology.

Some Students of the Department of Mechanical Engineering, Federal Polytechnic Ado Ekiti have recorded another breakthrough in science.

The students have succeeded in using their expertise to build several technological devices such as drone, hydrogen gas, hydro power plant, oxy acetylene gas welding manifolds, Ethanol for powering generators and energy through water force among others.

The exercise which was supervised by lecturers in the Department of Mechanical Engineering, Federal Polytechnic Ado Ekiti, gave the students opportunities to explain how they carried out the projects and its aims.

Defending the projects, some of the students, including Omotoso Micheal, Ajayi Temitope explained that they were able to achieve the feat through the help of competent and qualified lecturers in their department.

The students promised to utilize such skills beyond the four corners of the classroom.

Reacting to the development, the Head of Engineering Department, Federal Polytechnic Ado Ekiti, Engineer Olorunisola Abayomi noted that the students were well trained to compete with their counterparts in the labour market and called on Federal and State governments to invest in the institution and the students for better breakthroughs in science.

Also, the supervising lecturer of the students that produce the hydro power, Engineer. Kayode Afuye urged Ekiti state government to take advantage of the invention to provide electricity for its citizens.

On the drone, the project Coordinator of the Department, Engineer John Momoh explained that, if the project was properly funded by government it could be used to fight insecurity affecting the nation through surveillance. 

On his own, Dr Ejiko Samuel who supervised the students that produce ethanol and gas through waste of animals explained that the product was more economical and environmental friendly.

Speaking on the important of oxy acetylene gas welding manifold, Engineer Nurudeen Olawole said it would ensure safety of the students while welding unlike the old method.

The lecturers appreciated the spport of the Polytechnic Rector, Dr Dayo Oladebeye called on the Federal and state governments to invest in Federal Polytechnic Ado Ekiti for students of the institution to make the country proud in the area of technological advancement.

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Story of Madam Janet, a popular beans seller in Abeokuta.

SEBIOTIMO ELEWA SAPON. (Madam Janet Odesola, the famous beans seller in Abeokuta)

"Sapon" was extracted and coinage from the word "Saponloore.... Se Apon loore" meaning; help the bachelors).
Sapon was the meeting place where people, especially men who had not married used to go and eat delicious foods and drink in those days in Abeokuta.
Sapon connects Ijaiye, Ago-Oba, Itoku, Lafenwa, Isale Igbein and Ake roads.

Many people are unaware of what led to the popular slang "Sebiotimo, elewa sapon", literally meaning "Cut your coat according to your size".

Now sit back and let me tell you.

There was actually a woman called Madam Janet Ewusi Odesola who was selling Beans at Sapon. Important personalities, Kings, Govt officials, Men, women and children loved her sumptuous cooked beans with stew, Ewa Pekule.

Madam Janet was born in 1925 and went to Methodist primary school, Ijoko Abeokuta. She was initially hawking dry fishes, before she forayed into cooked beans in 1951.

Her beans was selling very fast despite cooking a big bag of beans daily.
People bought with cash and when they were out of cash, they buy on credit.

It got to the point that the beans seller could not handle the credits anymore!

She devised a means of preventing people from buying on credit.
Whenever they came to her, she asked for money, if it was 10kobo they had, she sold 10k worth of beans.
If they beg for more beans on credit she told them, "SEBIOTIMO;" that is, "cut your cloth....."

With time, people got used to her new style. Before they asked for more, they already knew the response she would give.
As a result, they nick named her "Se biotimo, elewa sapon".

More so, she only sold one big pot of beans per day, she did not cook extra. So, when people asked her why she didn't cook more, she would reply; "Mo se bi motimo ni") meaning "I cut my cloth according to my size".

In this new year, Sebiotimo! Cut your cloth according to your clothes. Don't overstretch your hands. Limit yourself to what you can afford.

Compliment...

SUICIDE IN OUR SOCIETY

It is not a new thing anymore that suicide is very common in our society. It is caused by different things.

This article will help us to know how to prevent suicide.

Suicide as we know is the act of killing oneself or hurting oneself because of emotional depression. It can also mean the international act of causing one's own death.

With good research across the globe, So many factors has contributed to the way and reason people commit suicide in our society, some of these reasons are: mental disorderliness, depression, over thinking, family problem, hatred from loved ones, rejection , poverty, sexual abuse (rape), relationship breakdown and so on.

There was a lady recently who committed suicide just because her boyfriend said he is no more interested in the relationship, another one happened when a guy failed about two courses in his final year and felt like the whole world is against him thereby committing suicide.

Ways not to be a victim of Suicide
1. Relate with good people around you and gladly do what will make you happy.
2. Avoid staying alone always. To reduce the thoughts that always come to your mind.
3. Always open your mind to your trusted ones.
4. Avoid having evil thoughts when they are coming to mind, avert it immediately and do something that will make you happy.
5. Pray to God always and let God be your best friend.
6. Also be your best friend. No one can know you better than yourself. Understand that we all have a purpose to fulfill on earth
7. Let positive thoughts rule your mind
8. Understand that failure is not the end of life, it is an opportunity to start with a different strategy.
10. As a parent, get to know your kids more.

Suicide is evil, say no to evil.
Never rely on people and understand the nature of men. Let love rule your mind.

Check on you neighbour to know how they are doing, you never can tell when you are really saving lives.

Show love to your family, encourage one another in a positive way. Never be a victim of suicide.

Overcoming Stress

Stress is the body's reaction to any change that requires an adjustment or response. The body reacts to these changes with physical, mental, and emotional responses. Stress is a normal part of life. You can experience stress from your environment, your body, and your thoughts.

Let's consider this Bible passage to create a focal point..

“I know where I came from and where I am going.” Jn 8:14 NIV

Know what you want to accomplish. Jesus said, “I know where I came from and where I am going”.

Can you say that too? Unless you plan your life and establish priorities, you’ll be pressured by other people to do what they think is important. Every day you either live by priorities or you live by pressures.

There’s no other option. Either you decide what’s important in your life or you let other people decide for you.

It’s easy to operate under the tyranny of the urgent, to come to the end of your day and wonder, “Have I accomplished anything at all? I used up a lot of energy and did a lot of things, but did I achieve anything important?”

Busyness is not necessarily productivity. You may be spinning in circles but not accomplishing anything of real value.

Preparation causes you to be at ease. Or to put it another way, preparation prevents pressure, whereas procrastination produces pressure. Good organization and good preparation reduce stress because you know who you are, who you’re trying to please, and what you want to accomplish.

Having clearly defined goals simplifies life. So spend a few minutes at the beginning of every day talking with God in prayer. Then look at your schedule for the day and decide: “Is this really the way I want to spend a day of my life? Am I willing to exchange the next twenty-four valuable hours for these activities?”

The right answer to those two questions will lower your stress level by helping you prioritize.

A wise man said, your past is a waste paper, your present is a news paper and your future is a question paper. What do you do with waste paper? Of course you throw it away!

Generate a new strategy to do away with external pressure put upon you by people. Prepare your way and be stress free.